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All the World Is a Talent Show

“I just don’t want to draw anymore.”

Every once in a while, a kid has to make a choice.  Which activity to do after school, which friends to spend time with, which talent to pursue and nurture.  There are only so many hours of the day.

Naturally, as the art teacher, I try to keep kids interested in art as long as possible.  I know that most of them will drop it eventually. But when a kid is trying to make a choice about whether to take art classes or join the soccer team, I try to get them to see things my way.  You’ll have sports for a few years, maybe you’ll even play in college if you’re lucky.  But you can have art forever.

I wasn’t prepared for this response though:

“No one else is doing it.”

Simple, direct, and airtight logic based entirely on the fact that kids are so good at viewing themselves through the lens of how their peers see them.

How do I argue with that?

No One Wants To See Your Talent

I wasn’t very old before I realized that whatever my talents were, they weren’t going to win me any popularity contests.

It was actually the school talent show that proved this point.

I was a very quiet, reserved child.  But I always had a secreted desire to try out for the school talent show.  I wanted to show off some unknown talent that would blow everyone’s minds, make them sit up and take notice of this quiet kid they had never given much thought to before.

The problem was, I didn’t have a talent…at least not the kind you take to the talent show.

Sure, I was good at art.  But no one goes to a talent show to watch some kid draw a picture.   I was pretty decent at math too.  But I’m pretty sure if I went on stage and started solving math problems, the parents would probably start booing.

Whatever I was good at, which was not baton twirling or piano playing, no one wanted to see it.

 All the World Is a Stage

Since those school talent shows, in which I never took the stage, I have felt that the world works in a similar way.  It is a lot like a talent show…

…But only a few of us ever get to take the stage.  Only a select few, with the “right” talents and gifts ever get the applause of our peers, while the rest of us quietly sit on the sidelines, yearning to let out our inner rock star.  Maybe it is true that “all the world is a stage,” but most of us feel like we’re just understudies for the real stars.

Even the church feels this way sometimes.

God has gifted us all in different ways.  But I never felt that God gifted me adequately.  I never felt that my gifts were good enough, compared to someone else’s gifts.  (I don’t think this is a new feeling.  Read Paul’s letters to the Corinthians.)  Even though I lead my church, I don’t even feel like the right kind of leader!  I know I’m not alone.  I see Christians sitting on the sidelines all the time, like church is a talent show.  But no one wants their gifts.

Whatever we are good at, no one is doing it.

And that’s when I had a realization.

What Is No One Doing

Kid, you say that you don’t want to draw because no one is doing it?

That’s exactly why you should be doing it.

We train ourselves to conform, to pursue gifts and dreams where there is already a trailblazer ahead of us.  But the world is never changed by people who only do what everyone else is doing.

People start ministries and adopt orphans and take care of poor people and help drug addicts and change lives because no one else is doing those things.  Stop looking at what people are doing, and start looking at what people are not doing.  That’s where you’ll find exactly what you should be doing.

I don’t know what your talents are.  But I do know that the world needs, desperately needs your gifts…

…because no one else has your gifts.

Question: Have you ever felt like your gifts didn’t have a place in the world?

[photo: karindalziel, Creative Commons]

About The Author

Matt Appling has been writing his blog, The Church of No People, since 2008. In that time, his writing has been featured and syndicated on numerous culture, leadership and spirituality sites. Matt has worked in ministry for ten years, and is a pastor and a teacher in the Midwest.

  • http://www.inamirrordimly.com/ Ed_Cyzewski

    Good word Matt. I’ve been thinking lately that the church should be a place to actively promote the best of the arts. I think we fear turning the church into a market place that we miss a chance to say, “Hey, look at this book, painting, album, etc… This is excellent and we support it.” That also touches on the tension of doing something because you feel the call to do it vs. the appeal of outward approval. We all need support and affirmation at key points in our lives, but there also comes a time when we may have to just take the leap no matter what others are doing.

  • http://www.bethanysuckrow.com/ Bethany Suckrow

    Such a great thought, matt. One thing I realized recently was that I couldn’t keep up the pace of blogging that other “expert bloggers” said I should – posting every day, posting a certain type of content. So I stopped – out of exhaustion, frustration, and perhaps a little resentment. And the thing I realized after meeting so many of my online friends in real life at Story Conference was that my strategy to stop doing what I was told and do things my own way was actually working in my favor. I may not have higher stats for it, but the followers I have are more loyal readers than they were 6 months ago, and those relationships are deeper. We need to pursue art and our gifts the way that suits us best, and sometimes that means doing the exact opposite of what everyone else is doing.

  • Melissa Jones

    My inner 14-yr-old is holding up…..hm….we didn’t have cell phones then, and I certainly didn’t have a lighter…..so….my thumb pretending to be a lighter as I sway and sing, “Looking for a reason, roaming through the night to find my place in this world, my-y place in this world…”

    I’m usually one of the ones on stage at our church, choir member and occasional praise team member at the Sunday morning service, “worship leader” (hate the term) at the Saturday night service. I worry if I’m doing things “right” or “good enough” (especially on Saturday nights), and it’s been an interesting journey to get to where I am (especially a good, Southern Baptist girl “leading worship”). I definitely feel like I’ve found part of “my place” in our local church body. I try to fill this role with a humble understanding that we are all members of one body and my “showy” role absolutely couldn’t happen if there weren’t an army of less “showy” roles being filled….but it’s hard to express that to someone in a “less ‘showy’ role” without it coming across as self-righteous and self-serving.

    Other parts of “my place” in my local church body haven’t been so natural or happened so organically (i.e., just grown over the years). I’m still working on them, but I think I’m understanding more and more what my role in “the body” is. Translating that to something acceptable to the body as a whole is the difficult part, partly because we don’t function as a true “body” anymore and partly because of my own failings.

    But as part of the larger Church, I feel like I’ve found part of my place because I am a wife, and a mom of three little kids that we are in the process of ‘training in righteousness.’ They are our God-given legacy/heritage/inheritance. I think far too often people are more concerned with the world (or the institutional church) than they are with the mission field that God has handed to them in their own homes.

    “My place in this world…..my place in this wooooorld…..”

  • http://DavidHelmsBlog.com/ David Helms

    I can completely relate to this. Wanting to be in the talent show. Not having any discernible “talents”. It’s a frustrating road to walk, when everyone says to you “You have a gift, you just have to discover what it is.” When that gift isn’t obvious to you, when nothing seems to come easy.

  • http://twitter.com/JonathanMontan Jonathan Montan

    I am an introvert with talents better suited for an extrovert. Not quite the same as your situation. Still I would use my talents but was nervous as all get out using them.

    • http://twitter.com/iamdalea Dale Allen

      So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. (Isiah 41:10) >>> a word for you Jonathon!

      • http://twitter.com/JonathanMontan Jonathan Montan

        Thanks!

  • http://KatieAxelson.com/ Katie Axelson

    I love this, Matt! Great post!

  • http://www.caitlinmuir.com Caitlin Muir

    Love this.

    It’s okay to be secretly incredible. In fact, that’s what makes people stick out a world of reality TV and endless award shows. Thanks for the reminder.

  • http://twitter.com/iamdalea Dale Allen

    True word Matt! We need to embrace our individuality and uniqueness knowing that God created us for a specific purpose. Btw who said you couldn’t draw for the talent show??? You could have tried to draw a simple picture in less than 3 minutes to some electrifying music. That would have been unique and the response I am sure would have been great. Anyway keep using your talents and gifts to shape our world for Christ!